Hairstyle Help for Daughter's Wedding?

Okay, I've actually got a headache from looking at hairstyle's over the net. Maybe someone out there knows of a great website that could help, or even a hairstylist can help me suggest something to the girl that's doing my hair. My hair is blonde, a little above my bra strap on my back, and it's very thin. I have bangs across my forehead. I'm 47, but a young 47 year old, meaning I don't like tight hairdo's, a french twist or something like that is out of the question. I kind of what half up half down with some curls but I don't want to look like I'm trying to look much younger than I am. I'm wearing long cubic zirconia earrings. I'm wearing a long dress with spaghetti straps. Does anyone have any suggestions or a good website that I might be able to find something on. Thanks....wedding is less than 2 weeks away, getting so excited!